I agree on your own way of outsourcing a family, I know that most of our children are not properly absorbing on what their teacher taught them, children usually use their own stock knowledge.

That is, parents should do all the parenting that they can, but they should also be aware of what they’re not as capable of. (For Jeanne and me, that includes toilet training–that’s something that’s led to some very unpleasant power issues with our children.) Outsourcing those to people who are better at them, whether friends or family or professionals, is a service to our children, i’d argue.